Don’t tell people about your plans. Show them your results.

i didn’t do this for you. i did this for me. i did this to feel free. to show myself that i have nothing to hide. to show that i am in control. what you saw as your pleasure was actually my demonstration of power. and it gave me the confidence i needed so badly. to say yes and to say no according to my standards, not yours. and boy, that confidence is liberating.